THE SHOCKING REVELATION OF CAREER & RELATIONSHIP

The biggest problem that any person is facing is what is important? Career or relationship? Well my answer is not intended to maximize the importance of one of them or minimize the importance of the other one. Rather, my answer is intended to be realistic.

But from an idealistic point of view it should be one's choice to choose between love or career but i will try to throw some light on both the aspects. Ideally good relationship will give you the moral support you need to succeed in your career & good career will help you with confidence & finance which will improve relationship in your life. So we can also say both are inter related to each other .

I know when i am saying this i am.inviting all kind of negative comments from the people who strongly believe in the concept of " pyaar andha hota hai " that is love is blind .  again state that i am not against love but love is the amongst the best feeling in the world because there was a time when i was in love too. So,it is the story of my school days when i was madly and badly in love with a guy & he used to be my junior. He was after me for almost an year . Everybody was aware of the thing . After that he somehow convienced me to be with him & we started dating. First 4-5 months were like heaven days with him but then I saw the uglier face of love like unnecessary possessiveness insecurities violence which have almost ruined a lot of relationships . Till the date i don't get the point of being jealous or insecure like when you can't trust him or her & give them their space , freedom , time then why are you into this fucking relationship? As if someone really wants to cheat you your possessiveness or jealousy can rescue .

Love is something that is cultivated between 2 people & grows over time by loving each other by knowing each other by building a mutual trust and understanding . It involved commitment , time , space , mutual trust & ofcourse mutual understanding. Almost all out there who is reading this will agree to this that love is both physical & psychological well-being. I think love is all about sacrifice.  But for today youngsters it has become more a trendsetting thing . Everybody wants to be in relationship no matter if they really love them or not. Some do it just for the sake of name , fame  & attention . With love comes the word trust , time , sacrifice , commitment  , care & much more. Earlier token of love meant chocolates but now a days it includes paying all her expenses . I mean why yr are you boys earning ? Then why are they investing in your lavishly unnecessary expenses . Why can't both dutch or split the bills ? 

In the age we all are i guess its crucial to invest in your career for several reasons.

Your career understands the Give & Take rule . Only your career abides you by this rule. That is to say, the more you put in your career the more valuables it return to you. The more skills you master the better you become to enhance the quality of your life & of the people you love & care about . However in a relationship the scenario is somewhat different . Instead of putting you forward sometimes it dargs you behind . But if you find a partner who always supports you for who you are and your career is a blessing . Your career is your lifelong friend . Your career will never abandon you , whatever it gives you will remain with you forever . 

Moreover the title of being somebody who as a person you always has aspired to become gives you more happiness & satisfaction. Your career is like an attraction magnetic field . It attracts for whatever you long for in your life . People will flock to you , people will admire you , respect you & ofcourse there is a good chance that amongst them there can be someone you will fall for & that could be one you have been waiting for so long . 

With this i am not concluding or trying to convince you that with money everything happens good in your life but the point is that Just don't get distracted from your path because of your love life. 

The point is you should become someone who in the world looks upto . Once you are that someone the other one will be automatically drawn towards you .  We are not suggesting that you should never go into a relationship what we are trying to explain is  ( according to us ) career should be your highest priority. While you are young , enjoy yourself more as a person . Remember no one wants to be with someone who is not of control of his/her life . No one wants to be with someone who is drifting in life . 

THOUGH ONE SHOULD BE OF IDEA OF PUTTING BOTH INTO SAME LEVEL ..

FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY WHO LOVES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE AND NOT 

 FOR WHO THEY WOULD LIKE TO SEE YOU BECOME IN THEIR LATTER LIFE.

At last i would conclude by saying that there is correct time for everything so plan accordingly...

                                   KHUSBOO& JAGNATH